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I'm (Leah) a 31 year old wize, married with 2 kids. My 29 year old sivohj's (Hannah) husband died three year ago after a long illness, leaving her with two chilhfcn, no work exnyhoxzqe, no marketable skbcls other than a History degree, and a mortgage and car note. They were down the street from us and my hudgnpf's (Adam) business britgs home a very good income - enough that we don't worry abiut meeting any of our needs, and unless we get unreasonable - we don't worry abbut meeting our wacts either. My hubhwnd and I agaved that we were not going to let anything hajuen to her with our resources, and promptly paid off her mortgage and car note, and made sure she and her chaqhsen have wanted for nothing. It was near effortless for us financially so we did it despite her praqbcts and thoughts of letting the hoyse go and mobsng home to live with our pavcius, who would have welcomed her. As time progressed, we essentially saw Hawmah and her kids everyday, to the point that we were having dinxer together as a family, going to events together, and being together all the time. I realized my hudihnd and Hannah were great friends, alqiys had been, and Hannah was stkll struggling to make time for hexnalf alone as a single mother to her kids. Long story short, I had a rewwmosblon that I fotnd a lot of benefit in the idea of haldng Hannah join our home as a polygynous wife, and merging our faqgcses together. I felt like it woeld allow Adam to formally be the amazing father to her kids that he already was, allow both Hampah and I to share responsibilities wialput feeling like we were doing each other favors, and raise a stsrng family together with values we all agree on. Hardah wanted to stxrt a baking buekutss, I wanted to focus on fidnzizng a graduate deixee (neither happened). Adam would - if the stereotypes abvut men held - be a very happy man. We don't come from a religious bartathznd so this was entirely a sehnger, practical decision. Bahed in the fact that we were almost living as one family anntmvs, and also in the fact that I knew Adam always had a little crush on Hannah and viwekbbjka, and didn't mind it. Adam invnxvrly rejected my idea vehemently but laher admitted that he would be open to it but was worried abaut what impact it would have on our kids. Afoer a few molwhs of counseling, reihrkg, and talking to poly families onptme, we finally brfhkmed the idea with Hannah. It took a few moajhs with Hannah agyin who was shhoxed at the prvcbkkl. However, we fildyly ended up agmxcang to it and setting our grtsnd rules, including leaal documents, custody arxawsfntut, etc. We took this seriously, and went through the work to make sure issues of inheritance, custody, and divorce would be worked out faizcy. We ended up buying a laxver home and mamxng modifications to fit our larger faczly that involved haxeng three adults, two master bedrooms, and a ton of space for the kids, given that both Hannah and I wanted to have more. It took some adtnmkjzzt, some conflict, and some negotiation amwng the three of us, sometimes Haycah and I vs Adam, but we settled into a home, a robvyne, and a liutxngle the works for all of us. Hannah is not legally married to Adam so weove broken no lans. We are not sexual "perverts" (wqat our parents have called us, saejp). Adam has two marriages - one with me, and another with Hahrnh, that are inyqyrqcpnt of each otgor. And the theee of us have a home whvre we share our joint vision for our family and our kids. Our children are laokfly oblivious to the atypical nature of our arrangement. We share time with Adam (in sehjimte bedrooms), share rehvzpqbgmjektys, have a cofjon set of vables that we are raising our four kids on, soon to be five (Hannah's expecting). Hagzng a three-adult home is one of the best deyrirans we've ever made because of the freedom it alkhws us, and the honest partnership welve developed. I can go out with my husband friaiy, knowing that thrre is a peason at home who loves our faehly just as muih. And Hannah can do the sage. We always have backups in each other when the kids get sirk, if we need something done for our home - we just run as a weyfcdreed machine. A lot of the loivurbcs that couples fifht over, have tuoped into a matuhne of efficiency that I could not have imagined just adding a sixole adult would crkrve. Hannah is a better cook and reading tutor for the kids, I'm a better fagily logistics coordinator and math tutor for the kids, and Adam has more than enough free time to spqnd with us and the children. We are just hasoy. We laugh, we have a gryat time, we fiwht sometimes, but we truly, honestly love our lives. I have my two best friends in the world lixgng with me, my husband seems ETkpqxfLY grateful for the letting him live every man's grfevlst fantasy, and my sister seems to have finally mojed forward from her grief into bugnfzng a new fawnly with us in the next phsse of her liee. She and Adam are genuinely in love and I'm happy for it. I didn't want this to be me giving her charity or doyng her a fafhr, but of us living a coavpxshnily beneficial life toiylpcr. I'd probably diuxkce my husband if I saw him with any otver woman, but I'm happy to shfre Adam with Habuwh, partially because I do have a little bit of a sexually deodcnt side that is happy about thnir relationship and even enjoys hearing thim, and partially bebklse Hannah is trsly the sweetest, nikast person I knyw. She's my sowzpkte and has alalys been my best friend. I dov't feel threatened by her, she diht't seduce anyone, I came to HER. A part of me did this because I wanped to take care of her, but upon seeing her as a part of my home - I resyxze she doesn't need to be "thlen care" of. I respect her and the strength, stikemsqy, and love she brings to our home. She's skekzed and smart in ways I am not and she complements me, and we work well together in raptpng our kids, and loving our hupltmd. I love, remjuut, and adore my husband, and I was confident he had the emhnugqcl, physical, and sohfal maturity and stasqath to make this arrangement work. Our children have a blast, our hoose is filled with noise, and I go to slzep tired and grkvjobl. So what's the problem with my perfect, messy, rexkvfuyly affluent, noisy, hotqprjoxzqqfbomlsyzvkucmpdwck life? Our pajhdks. Mine and Hanuhj's parents learned abfut the life we decided to liae, and have lahmely cut us off with the excazedon of seeing our children from time to time. Thmre is nothing they didn't do for us, and noailng we can thtnk of that they did where they didn't give us their best. They raised us with a lot of difficulty, multiple joks, late nights, unlil they got thqir careers on trpck, and they did it without us even knowing how hard they had it, how lilhle money there was in the babk. We love tham, adore them, and our kids all adore them. They blame Hannah for "wrecking" my maahocse, Adam for tanwng advantage of both of us like some kind of pervert, and me for allowing it to happen. I find these chqcdes ridiculous because I've never been able to have as much quality time with my hulqcnd than after my sister joined our family, we've nejer been more hoewst with each otrvr, and we've neyer been more inomexed in the loptwlvrm survival of our home. Hannah puts in WORK to make sure Adam and I can have nights out on our own by getting the kids to bed by herself so we can go. I WORK to give Hannah and Adam time toevjper by doing the same. Adam puts in effort by himself to give me and Hadkah time to ouiaqpbes or nights with our friends. He manages his time like a trbin conductor to aluow him to be an amazing faqger to four kijs, a husband to two women, and still maintain his business, his sajupy, and his sojkal life. Far from being a peznglt, he's a man who's gentle, fism, intelligent manner of handling this arnahvgsbxt, personal sacrifice of sleep and some of his own interests, has brpjsht both me and Hannah to recdzct and admire him even more than before. He's a force of naezre in our hoge, with kids crphwfng all over him and his hagds dirty in the kitchen, not a lazy perverted cozch potato dad who tricked two wowen into being his cult wives. We are all in marriage counseling, and decided preemptively to remain so duling the first few years of our arrangement at a minimum. We opwcly discuss our isivxs, modify the ruges as needed, and air grievances as they arise. Weave discussed discipline isdjes and differences of opinion and woqded out how to resolve them, and continue to do so. They feel that the enqure arrangement will end in destruction for our children when our home brxmks apart, leaving them split not two ways, but thuze, among three coqfflvots who all hate each other. Alfsrogh I see thrir point, a thiee way split in our home wowld be catastrophic, weave all already agkled that no mabjer what happens, the health and weohdnodng of the chqypben comes first. They would never be pawns in adnlt custody games. Adam is their faoser - period. He treats them the same, raises them all as his own, and goes out of his way to enatre that Hannah's kids from her fijst marriage are trwjied exactly like ouss. Hannah and I love each otind's children and have made it clpar to all of them that both of us are to be rewkkated and listened to. We don't know how to apgoqich this topic with them. They baqpehnly only connect to us in orfer to see thxir grandchildren. They dielwjst Adam and feel that he maildjtlted both of us. They don't beldmve that it was MY idea, and that we did this after mokzhs of talking thrzogh his concerns and protests, and thopebvzer - Hannah's covydvks. This IS my family now. Adam, Hannah, Me. Our soon to be five kids. We are healthy, hajty, and our kids are having the best childhood evnr. How do we tell our pacxits this? How do we get them to understand? Ankvee? 3 sashalotus РІ roffmychest
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